Consider and remember... The value of deciding in advance what you want to have happen (New Year's goals?) is that you will look at every situation as a means to make it happen. You will see everything that interferes with it and decide against it. You will also concentrate on everything that ... » Learn More about Happy New Year!!
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Focus on What You Want More Of
What we focus on, we create more of. Your stance in your relationships is the key to creating more of what you want. If you focus on creating more peace and nothing else, you will. Nothing else rises to the importance of honesty, peace and day-to-day tranquility. Whenever we get to a place with ... » Learn More about Focus on What You Want More Of
Are We Compatible?
It can be a real challenge to have a romantic relationship with someone who has an opposing set of beliefs or values especially in the political, spiritual, economic, artistic or cultural arenas. When talking about your beliefs in a passionate way, they may disagree and want to argue their case for ... » Learn More about Are We Compatible?
Managing Anger
Anger is a normal emotion that can escalate into an immoderate and toxic obstacle very quickly in relationships. Examples of escalation might be when we feel repeatedly unheard and invisible to others and not being acknowledged. Others include when we have expectations of others that are ... » Learn More about Managing Anger
Am I a Christian Counselor?
Many people have asked me this question. It really depends on the definition of Christian you use. What does it mean to be a practicing Christian? People have varying ideas and emphasis here so let me see if I can answer intelligently. If you are asking if I belong to a Church group, I do ... » Learn More about Am I a Christian Counselor?